Letters to my son

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I thought it would be nice if on occasion I shared with you some of the letters I write to my son.  he is serving a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  These young men leave between the age of 19-26 and serve for two years.  They are only allowed to call home twice a year– on Mother’s Day and Christmas, and are allowed to write home once a week.  At a time when most young men are “trying to find themselves,” our sons are out sacrificing and serving and truly becoming Men.  They return home with experience, wisdom, gratitude, humility, and as “giant’s in our eyes.

I write to my son once a week and often in those letters, I share scriptures I have read or great talks I have heard.  I thought I would share some of these thoughts, letters and insights with you.  If I have a post that was written to him, I will preface it with “Letter to my son.”  These really are for all my kids, he just happens to be the one I get to write to on a regular basis.

This particular son I admire so much.  He has overcome great adversity just to be serving this mission.  He has also been blessed with the gift of a beautiful voice, so you’ll see me share a bit about that on here as well.

I hope you’ll enjoy these letters.  I may include some of his insights as he has some great ones, too that he shares with me.

 

 

 

 

 

Homecoming 2011

It was homecoming around here last week.  We love to have some fun with our kids and make their dinner just a little bit more special.  Well, let’s be honest, it keeps them from traveling a long way or spending a bunch of money on a dinner.  And it’s hard to get a big group in some of the restaurants.

Doodle Bug and MP decided that we should do a pirate theme this year.  So I figured that making the deck of the pirate ship would be the easiest.

Here are some photos of the room:

Here’s the tables looking toward the door
The tables with their treasure chests, swords, eye patches and earrings.
The ships sail in the background
Pretty peach soup. They loved it!
My handsome son and his darling date!
Love this picture!
The group
More of the cute group

Does What’s on the Inside Really Count?

I was thinking in the shower. I always think in the shower. I wish I could plug something in to my brain to record all the great ideas and thoughts I have while in there. I suppose it is because it is quiet, no one is bugging me, and I am relaxed enough to LISTEN. Yeah, that’s probably it. So I should have a category called “shower ideas.” But then you’d think we’d all be playing games and eating food– baby showers, wedding showers, etc.

All that being said, I had this really great thought today. I was freezing. I couldn’t get warm. I had all this hot water dripping on me and I was still cold. I realized that it was because I had just eaten a cup of ice. (Don’t ask me why I eat ice in the winter when it is freezing outside. I just love it.) Anyway, this thought occurred to me that I couldn’t even use the outside forces of warmth to warm me up when I had created the cold from the inside. It’s probably one of the reasons I stay cool during our hot summers. There is nothing I love more that sitting by the pool with a huge cup of ice in my hand. My body gets warmed up by the sun, so I don’t get so cold. But I found it interesting that even though I wasn’t currently eating ice, I was still cold in the shower. I took me quite a while to finally warm up.

Then this analogy came to me. If I am taking something into my mind/body on a consistent basis, no force from the outside beating against me can change it. I would have to stop what I am taking in and then keep myself in the “outside” situation long enough for it to change.

As soon as I became aware of that, into my mind popped the thoughts about what I am taking into my mind/body to preserve my character, integrity, and spirituality. I realized that if I take daily doses of scriptures, prayer, kindness, service, positive thinking, and correct choices; no force outside of me can change me or sway me. I realized that no matter what Satan threw at me– movies, books, internet, criticism from others, tough choices or any of his fiery darts, they would not change me without me quitting what I was doing and lingering in that negative presence.

What is on the inside really does count. Or better yet, what we PUT on the inside on a regular basis really does count. Do you want a change in your life? A habit or struggle you are trying to overcome? Take in those good things and build and strengthen them, then you, too, will be protected from all the forces around you and stand calm and serene in the “mists of darkness” and confusion.

What’s Right In the World

January 14, 2010

Tonight I witnessed a remarkable event- a moment of tenderness, kindness and Christ-like love.   It was my assignment this night to keep score for Young Women’s basketball in our Stake.   The first game started out as usual.  The girls were having a good time and giggling and laughing.

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Coming late to the game for the purple team was sweet little Brooke.  Brooke is autistic.  Sometime in the 2nd half of the game, Brooke came in to play.

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Her teammates gave her the ball at the top of the key.  She quickly threw it to the girl in front of her who happened to be on the other team.  That girl, not expecting the ball to bounce at her feet, picked it up and took off for her end of the court.

The next time down, Brooke was again given the ball.  This time, the opposing player became aware of Brooke’s situation.  Brooke threw the ball to her again.  The cute Young Woman then threw it right back to her.  Brooke giggled and threw it to her again.  With a smile, this young gal threw it back.  Then Brooke’s leaders and teammates started hollering, “Brooke!  Throw it to someone in purple!”  Brooke looked around and found a teammate in purple and threw them the ball to the cheers of everyone.  Brooke began clapping with excitement.

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A few minutes later, on the purple side of the court, the ball was coming into play.  Brooke was standing at the top of the key again.  There was at least 4-5 feet of space between her and any other player.  All of a sudden the whistle blew.  The referee (who happened to be in Brooke’s ward) walked over to one of the best players on the opposing team, touched her on the arm and said, “That’s a foul on you,” and gave Brooke the basketball.  This darling young woman, at first stunned, quickly caught on and turned to the ref with a smile and said, “Oh!  I can’t believe I did that!”  The ref brought Brooke to the free throw line.  She took the ball and threw up a good shot that fell a couple feet short of the basket.  He then told Brooke to move up a little and had her shoot her second shot.  This one bounced off the rim.  But everyone cheered for her and she clapped and smiled.

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The play continued on the other end of the court and upon coming back to purple’s side, the whistle blew again.  The ref came back to the sweet, good player and said, “That’s another foul on you.”  She giggled and said, “I was trying so hard not to this time!”  Again Brooke was brought to the “line.”  The ball went up and bounced around and off the rim again.  The ref handed her the ball for her second shot.  She took the ball and shot……SWISH!!  The ball went through and the whole place erupted into cheers!   Brooke began clapping excitedly.  I sat there with tears in my eyes trying to capture it with my camera.

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I came home that night and thanked my Heavenly Father once again that I could live amongst such great people!  I was touched that I was able to witness His hand working through these beautiful young women and an inspired man to bring light into the life of one young woman.  I dare say that many were lifted that night.  It brought an incredible spirit into that little gym.  And I’m hoping that the girl who committed the “fouls” went home knowing that the greatest amount of good she did that night was not in because of all the points she scored.  I am grateful to witness that there is still a great amount of good in the world and these beautiful young women are part of the reason!

A Gift of Gratitude for You

This post started out in my mind several weeks ago.  My son, Jadon, has an amazing voice and has been singing all over the place.    The more I heard him sing the song, “Thankful,” the more I could not get my mind off it.  “There’s so much to be thankful for.”  It’s true.  I began pondering and thinking. Continue reading A Gift of Gratitude for You

Misty Mornings

Yesterday driving home from the store, I looked down the road into the little beautiful valley I live in.  It was an overcast day–a wintery, gray/white sky kind of day.  I LOVE these days.  That break from the constant sunshine days, but more importantly, that warm nostalgic feeling kind of day.   Continue reading Misty Mornings

Eyes, Ears, Heart– What do these scriptures reference have to do with me?

I have spent the last year in a quest to document the Universal Laws and principles through scripture.  I have had some very enlightening moments, but none so great as this one. Continue reading Eyes, Ears, Heart– What do these scriptures reference have to do with me?

The Greatness in You…is it Invisible?

I’ve seen this video a few times now and each time I do, something in my heart stirs.  I wanted to share it to remind you that becoming who we are to become sometimes doesn’t happen in the way we think it should.  Really, it is by the small and simple things in life that we do each day.  It is to realize who we are truly serving.  Man or woman, this video really is about “becoming.”

The Invisible Woman

What is the REAL secret learned at the Bookpublishing Workshop?

I was privileged to attend Michael Drew’s Book Publishing workshop this last weekend.  The path getting there was a whole story in itself, but because of a good husband who told me I needed to do this, I ended up in SLC on a snowy weekend to hear the best in the field.

I learned a lot about building a platform, blogging, personas, trends, writing styles.  It was a great wealth of information!

What surprised me was the education I gained from the people there.  I was in awe at the stories that were trying to come out at this class, and amazed at the people there. Continue reading What is the REAL secret learned at the Bookpublishing Workshop?